Hi Adanne… I’ve been a follower, am a big fan of what you do because you are a source of inspiration to some of us. keep at it ma’am.. so down to my story… I am not a fanatic when it comes to sexual pleasure, but I love sex a lot and I think it’s disturbing my love life… during my school days I met the lady of my dream she was everything to me I trusted and loved her with all my heart. But one thing led to another and we broke up she got pregnant For someone else I understood it was a mistake on her side with my matured mind, but it hasn’t been easy all along, it’s been over 5 years now but I don’t know if am really over her, cos have met couple number of girls after her and it all feels like at first I love them then after a couple of weeks it’s just about the sex and I get tired of the whole thing. I tried so hard to be serious with a lady, but I still live with the idea that my babe in school was a very responsible girl (I will neva dent that), So if she could make such a mistake then another lady can, this is the mindset I have.. and btw:(I mean no offence to all the ladies out there, please am sorry if anything I say come as offensive) so in the process of trying hard my current relationship has lasted for over a year between this period we have had several breaks in fact there was a time we had 2 months break, so not to bore you with my story, the problem I have now is I don’t know if am in love or not but I care about her a lot,I think I am only sexually attracted to her… and I want to make these one work am tired of changing girls anyhow, so I need help on how to make things work in my life… thank you