Every woman/man has used the above excuse at lease twice a month in their relationship/marriage.
Women have been accused of using it more and for the sake of this post, I am going to agree (not that I actually agree, I’m just trying to butress my point)
HOW DO YOU AVOID THE “I’m Tired”, “I’m feeling sleepy”, “I work too”, “the children put me through a lot of stress” Slogan. From my Singleton point of view, the answer is Porn.. Yes.. Porn.
I’m a woman and I understand how stressful it is to manage both home and work, even if you have a maid. Most men assume getting a maid eases the workload of their wives, in actuality, she now has extra worry added to her, now she has to worry whether the maid is not peeing in the food, or maltreating the children, or stealing, or giving outsiders private information of her employers. I am not saying having a maid doesn’t help, I’m just letting you understand that women are natural carers, they love and protect feircely and as such tend to worry about everything, including the things that may seemingly look perfect to a man.
When a woman says I’m tired, I’m feeling sleepy, she expects you to understand and let her be, but women have time and time again failed to understand when it comes to SEX, men believe it is way more important than any other thing you may do… That is why you will hear him arguing with you when you turn him down as if what you just explained holds no water, as a woman, you might even get frustrated and label the man as insensitive to your feelings. Look at this situation :
Man: “touching his wife trying to get some sugar”
Woman: “babe I’m tired o, I had to take the children to school, the car had faults, had to fix it, clothes were misplaced at the laundry, had to sit there and sort it out, then head to my store to check on the sales rep, then go to market, pick children, bath them, make lunch, put them to bed, make dinner, help you with the work you left at home, let me just rest please “
Man goes :” I understand, but are you saying we won’t have sex today?
Woman is confused like, 🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️ what the hell did i do all that explanation for in the first place..
HOW DO YOU RETAIN THE URGE FOR SEX AFTER A STRESSFUL DAY.
This is for women, men are known to be easily ready for sex.
Women, after a stressful day, watch a bit of porn, there’s nothing more arousing than watching two people make out and have sex, watch upclose shots of the dick entering the pussy, that is bound to get blood flowing quicker to your pudenda.. Time the watching to match exactly a few minutes before your husband comes in, have an earpiece in your ears so your kids don’t hear it, seeing another woman getting pleasured will make you want to get pleasured too.
No matter how tired you are, have a glass to drink, ready your mind and body to receive intense penising.. Imagine how your man feels on top of you… Want it, feel it… When he comes in, allow him shower, gently stroking his arms, or giving him side eyes over dinner like “baba tobi, wa fe ku la leyi”
He doesn’t need to know you watched porn.
Overtime, the pleasure you both receive every evening, will make you both look forward to spending more time together. Imagine a man been at work, knowing once he gets home, there’s wet pussy waiting for him. You’d have a happy home, lot of gifts and kisses and the overall ambiance of your home will change.
If you are a man with a wife that has high libido, do the same thing.
When you put in the effort, your partner will notice, the day you say you are tired, they will pamper you because they can’t wait for you to get back to your normal self.
Hope this helps someone.
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