I’ve spent the better part of today consoling a girl… She’s hurt and feels like killing herself…. Reason : Her boyfriend cheated on her… As much as I try to let her know that Men will stray, I’ve written about polygamy and polyamory before, the more she cried… She couldn’t imagine having to deal with the cheating again…
I learnt or rather relearned something today… It is not the actual sex with another woman that hurts your partner, its the work the man puts in just to get the sex.. Imagining your lover denying you, telling this person they love them and that they are single just so they can get sex that you always give them… It fucks up your psyche..
So many aggressive, angry women and Men moving around nowadays, because someone took the child out of them and hardened them..
You want to be lovey dovey but you are emotionally fucked up, you can’t even imagine yourself loving anyone completely… For a lot of people who have been cheated on, it rarely leaves you, you begin to feel like you are not enough, No matter what you do.. (leave social media fronting) because you gave this person your soul and they still did bad things to you… If you’ve ever been through something like this, how did you heal your mind?.. Please share.. It could help someone
Be kind to one another please… 😔😔
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