HOW TO PROPERLY SLIDE IN A GIRL’S DM TO REQUEST FOR SEX, FRIENDSHIP OR DM
1) Follow her page and like a few of her pictures
2) send a dm, find a funny conversation starter. Examples are listed below, I’ll use Ada and Ayo for illustrative purposes:’
a) “Hi Ada, I really hope you reply this, Just scrolled through your pictures and you looked very beautiful… Please tell me what you use so I can do the same.. PS: Na God o is not a suitable answer”
b) “Hey my name is Ayo, I just have one question.. What do you do to get rid of stress.. You seem so happy and I need a bit of that in my life”.
c) “Knock, knock… Please open the door.. I don’t know how I got in here.. One minute I was liking your pictures, the next minute, I slid and fell into your DM”.
d) “Send her a picture of you wearing a shirt, then ask her.. Guess what material, this shirt is… After she replies… Tell her; no, you are wrong.. Its Boyfriend material”.
There are so many convo starters to choose from… Hello, Hi, wassup, want to fuck is none of it… Please stop acting like an unfortunate barbarian…
3) Stay Funny and witty.. There is only one chance for a first impression
4) Pay her lots of compliments.
5) Request for her number and when she gives you, ask her if you can call
6) Call first, before you send a message on WhatsApp.
7) Always start your conversations with “Hey beautiful or Fine girl”, Girls love it.
8)If you are married, Please tell her.
9) If you want only sex, After the call, write her a message, I really like you and was hoping we could meet up, I’m not emotionally ready for a relationship at the moment or I have a girlfriend or wife (whichever the case may be) but I like you & I want to please you… I want to make you feel good, look into your beautiful eyes, while I kiss you, have you sit on my face while I eat you… You don’t need to have sex with me.
10) Expect her to either block you, put up initial resistance… If she blocks you, Take your L and move on. The resistance, your charm will quell…
11) Don’t be stingy, Expecting sex by doing absolutely nothing… A spoilt woman will open her legs faster than the speed of light.
12) Sometimes, she may turn you down. Don’t start acting like a sex-starved child. Be a gentleman, apologise and move on… Eventually, most girls will come back to you. They will start with.. “Hey, troublemaker” or “Hey Big head”. Keep it classy always
13)Do not brag about wealth or use these words “Trust me”, “I’m not the Regular guys out there”.. Oga we don’t care and we have heard it a thousand times already
14) Keep the convo strictly focused on the girl. You are after all trying to get her attention.
15) Let out subtle details of yourself… Instead of asking mundane questions, like where do you live, what do you do… You could say… I have to go to work all the way from ikoyi to Victoria Island every day… I’m an architect by the way.
When I close from work, I chill with my guys at xxz spot, during weekends I Netflix and chill… Tell me, Ada, what is a good weekend to you, let me see if I can make it happen.
16) if she’s bored, you can tell..you can easily excuse yourself, it’s not by force. But If you like her and want to continue… 5k or 3k would do the magic… Even a rich girl would enjoy a silly game she plays with a stranger who sends her 500 for every correct answer she gets.
Ask her questions, If you get it correctly, I will send you 1k or 500 for every correct answer… Any reward will do, doesn’t have to be money. Be Outstanding.
17) Do not ever push… Sex is sweeter when the woman comes to you… Her entire body and mind are in it with you.
18)Be a gentleman, regardless, There are plenty fishes in the sea.
19) be confident, be self-aware… You know your strengths, don’t let any girl’s refusal make you feel like you need to be a certain way in other to get women… That her boyfriend, she’s doing shakara with, probably hasn’t called her all week, can’t fuck well, suck well or doesn’t even have sense. You have your own unique abilities. If she can’t give you time to experience it. She should go
20)Learn social media slangs
BTW means By the way, not between
FOH means Fuck out of here
GTFOH means Get the fuck out of here
SMH means shaking my head
IDGAF means I don’t give a fuck
IKR means I know right.. Etc
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