These tips are for people in a loving relationship/marriage.(emphasis on mutually loving relationship, not situationship, sidechicship or sideniggaship)
1) women are very multifarious in their needs, today she wants love, another time she wants you away from her. Learn her moods and adjust.
2)Men are the polar opposite, if they say they want white only, they are usually 80% content with the white and wouldn’t need anything extra. The other 20%… Well #sidechicship
3)Pay attention to your partner, when they say, something hurts them, Apologise, DO NOT question or trivialise it. The worst thing you can do to your relationship is make your partner bottle up emotions simply because anytime they talk to you, you say they are nagging, become defensive or you laugh it off. Resentment will become the order of the day
4)If you are experiencing issues in your relationship. Do this, Take a pen and paper. Draw 2 columns; WHAT I LIKE | WHAT I DON’T LIKE. List everything you love about your partner, no matter how small it is in the what i like column, it could be *I like your thunder thighs
* I love your smile
*I like how you scream in bed
*I love the scent of you, whenever you are not here
Now list everything you don’t like about them in the other column, make little notes in front of each item you don’t like.. e.g **I dislike that you never let me enjoy football with my friends (note: you should join me whenever we watch, I’ll give you a foot rub later) *I dislike that you never want us to go out (note: been indoors will make our relationship monotonous) **i don’t like that I have to clean after you everytime (note: this has to freaking stop, I’m serious)
Give this paper to your partner, it shows you are willing to work on the relationship and it can help in situations where you guys are not speaking.
5) Never stop showing care, vulnerability and love to your partner… There is nothing that fuels a relationship more than showing your partner that you need them in your life.. Never stop!
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