I believe women can be polyamorous in nature. I know stories have been told time and time to overturn the belief that it is impossible to love 2 or more people at the same time in the same manner. I don’t think this is true. It is possible to love 2 people in an equal fashion, women and men do this, we like to deceive ourselves by saying the reason we are still with our long term partner/husband /wife is because we are afraid we have wasted a lot of time with them, there are kids involved and a host of other reasons. Even though we are cheating on them with someone else.
The truth is that we love our long term partner regardless of the issues we are currently facing, there is stability with this partner, we cannot imagine our lives without them yet we also love this young side chic/side nigga who fucks us, respects us, keeps us sane and do all the crazy shit our partner has refused to do.
Hence our capability to maintain 2 intimate relationships with 2 different people. I believe Polyamory works easier with women more and Polygamy works for men..
But I have seen some Men who are polyamorous in nature.. Everyone on earth knows this fact, including our fathers and mothers, yet there is this need to be in control, we know there is no freaking way on earth, your man or woman will not either entertain conversation with other people, EVEN if it doesn’t progress to a sexual relationship. They must at least have conversations, sometimes it’s flirtatious, sometimes more intimate, other times it’s random hellos, how are you doing etc. yet everyone fights their partner when they read messages on their phone, No one will come here to say, Since I have been with my partner, I have NOT
1)given my phone number to someone I obviously know is interested in me
2)have conversations with said person, intimate, random or otherwise
3)have sexual or flirtatious meetings with said person…
Now If we know these things, why then do we constantly bicker about it. You hear of spouses stabbing each other over WhatsApp messages. Someone please educate me!
EDIT: If this post makes you think I’m promoting cheating, which I’m NOT. I can’t help you. I’m not going to be regular to Please you.
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