Hello Ada, I decided to write to you because you seem very liberal-minded and you don’t judge. I have been a day 1 follower and I’m sure you will relate to this story because of the Amsterdam story you wrote.
I’m a Lagos big girl, I have about 3 boutiques in Lagos and I am married to a very popular big boy. He’s very close friends to ****** the actor. We have been married for about 3 years and dated for 1 year before we got married. Just before I first discovered I was pregnant my husband opened up to me about a few things he likes in bed: HE WAS BI-SEXUAL, he had had sex with a few men in his life and last but not least his biggest fantasy: that I have sex with other men. That I come home with cum in my vagina, or the newest and best scenario a threesome with a man.
It broke my heart hearing that, but Ada, he’s the greatest man anyone could ever ask for. He loves me even in my flaws, takes care of me and sometimes when business is slow, He helps me out, he is very very supportive. And to be honest, I never suspected that he might be swinging both ways. The issue is I have no desire to be with other men AT ALL. I told him that. I have a 2-year-old and am almost giving birth to a new baby, his sexual fantasies are really the Last thing that interests me at this point in my life. I’m a full-time mom and giving my husband at least 3 times per week sex costs me already enough energy let alone listen to him talk about fucking other men. But he won’t stop about it. I don’t wanna hurt his feelings but I’m so sick of listening to it that it just completely piss me off. I can’t leave my husband, he handles all his responsibility and he’s such a good man, if I leave, everyone will want to know the reason why.
Please Ada, how do I get my husband to be interested in sex that concerns both of us only. Please help, this marriage is beginning to disgust me. I always imagine where his dick has been whenever we have sex.
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