Ada How are you, please my girlfriend and I have been dated for about a year and 2 months now. I love her very much and would and do give everything for her.
We started being sexually active within a week of meeting each other. The sex was great and as we continued it got even better. She had been sexually assaulted so I was very sure to always listen to her never pressure her and I always put her first in everything especially the bedroom. She always orgasms multiple times and I give her oral sex every time.
Well it always has taken me longer than her to orgasm and a lot of times, about 80% of the time I don’t. She started taking birth control but still insists I use a condom. That’s okay, itll just take me longer to orgasm and I will need oral sex to climax. However, she doesnt enjoy oral sex. She says she doesnt mind but she never does it and when she does itll only be for about 2 minutes. I don’t pressure her because when she was sexually assaulted she was made to give oral sex so I don’t blame her. If I have to wear a condom and I dont get oral sex, then I will need to have sex even longer to orgasm. However she gets tired after about 15 minutes and we have to stop. I have been watching porn and masturbating more, but that doesn’t satisfy me. I don’t know what to do. Ive had this conversation with her a couple times but it always eventually reverts back to the norm. What do i do?
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Try explaining to her how you feel