Ada, I have heard that most women don’t come through penetrative sex.. I dont think thats true. I’ve calculated that out of all the women I’ve been with, I’ve given penetration orgasms to 93%. Many women have told me that I was the first person to give them an orgasm via penetration alone. I’m more interested in having a discussion as to why my personal experience differs. So I came up with some factors that may or may not contribute and I’m curious to hear what men and women have to say on the subject and the factors listed below.
1. Penis Width: As far as I’m aware, I’m only slightly above average at 5inches. So I doubt this has much of an effect.
2. Penis Length: I’m not well endowed by any means. I measure in at 6inches, but it is difficult for me to get fully aroused by myself.
3. Mindset: I started watching porn at probably much too young of an age and for some odd reason I feel like a failure if I have to resort to clitoral stimulation to give a girl an orgasm. When having intercourse, it’s my mission to give an orgasm with my penetration alone and I generally will only resort to clitoral stimulation as a “Plan B” This obviously excludes times when engaging in oral sex for the sake of oral sex.
4. Foreplay/Teasing: I don’t really enjoy “quickies.” If I want a quickie it’s easier to just masturbate. If you are having sex with me, book me for the full hour. So I usually spend around 20 to 30 minutes minimum, caressing her body, talking dirty, massaging, licking her everywere etc. I do think this is crucial to making a girl cum from penetration. I can’t think of any times where she dropped her pants and we started penetrating immediately and she had an orgasm from penetration, I’m sure other people are capable of that, but it’s doesn’t really happen with me.
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