Hello Ada, I’ve been reading your article and I decided to share this with you. I’m still shaking btw, so I met this guy on Instagram about 5-6 months ago nd after lots of texting we decided to give dating a try like 2months back. So everything was going great just that we were in different states, I in ph and he’s in Enugu but we haven’t visited yet cause school has been taking all my time and same with him and work. So after so long I decided to go to Enugu a day after my birthday. Please note I’ve never travelled to see any guy whatsoever and this was the first and it was a really big step for me. Long story short I got there and it was lovely he made me feel so secure and loved I didn’t even have any space to think twice about him. Till a night before I left, I posted a selfie on my Instagram story and next thing a girl is in my dm with ‘you’re in David’s house’ and I’m like okay?? Maybe an ex or something cause he told me bout his ex being in SA nd stuff so I replied like ‘yea I’m in my boyfriend’s house, anything’ and she’s like ‘oh that means we are sharing the same boyfriend’. Ada I swear I missed a beat, so this girl told me to check the picture handing up in his room that her phone number was behind so I should add her up on WhatsApp, bottom line is they didn’t break up before she left for SA, they were texting till that very day. I was besides myself I had no idea what to do next whether I should just rain down my madness on him when he gets back, cry or what. When he got bk, I tried confronting him but obviously the girl had played the matter before me nd he was expecting it so his defences were just up. He didn’t say anything, just that I shouldn’t believe everything she said over him, sis I couldn’t talk again I just went straight to bed with tears preparing to take off the next morning, which he dropped me off at the park, and only called to know if I had arrived safely. It’s been 4days Nd nothing from him, I haven’t Called or done anything. Plus this guys dick is so fat😒 I’m still in pains from that penetrating plus my heartbreak. I really don’t know what else to do. If you have any advice please help😩. His instagram handle is @ un******.
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